she had a much shorter stay here in San Diego than I had expected. We thought we would have at least six months of her here. I guess I didn't have to worry after all about Mom finding my linen closet in a mess and the tablecloths needing to be ironed. There were many things we wanted to do with her here that we never had time for because she was suddenly so sick.
But Mom did lots of things in her life, pretty much whatever she wanted. and she wanted all this to end, so she got her way there too. I'm sure Bruce was happy to have her back.
Our plans are to have Mom cremated so that people who want to be together to celebrate her will be able to make plans for an event in NJ. We will be taking her to Fairview to put her with Bruce and our grandmother. It's such a beautiful place and she picked out a wonderful spot with a view for the family plot when our grandmother died.
We'll let everyone know the plans as soon as we do. We aren't going to rush it because pelple will have to make arrangements to come from Long Island and other places. We'll bring Mom home with us when we come to NJ soon. Diva will leave tomorrow to be home in time to see Gina off to her first day of college. Family life goes on and it's good. But we all have to go through these times as well.
Thanks to everyone who read the blog and sent messages. It was really great to hear from people who read the blog and knew that they cared about us and Mom. You are all such great friends.
Dear Vicky and Diva,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear that Aunt Gloria passed away, it went so quickly. I too thought I'd get more chances to visit with her and share more pictures. Glad to hear she will be with the rest of the family in Fairview. Sending my love and sending strength to you all. Rest in peace my Aunt Gloria! xoxo
Pat and I want to send our best. Your mom was a great lady. I always enjoyed her visits to school. She was alot of fun with a great sense of humor. We send our love to you and Diva. I'm so glad she got to spend this time with you.
ReplyDeleteDear Vicky and Diva, we are all very saddened by the news that Gloria is gone so soon, but thankful that her last days were comfortable and surrounded by family, gardens, and music. She was very special to all of us. She always made sure that everyone was informed about neighborhood happenings. She was the only only one who always had time to stop in the driveway or garden to talk. There is now again, "Bruce and Gloria" :)...watch out heaven! My deepest condolences to you and your families....Sera
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